Isn’t that what life is about. We are spurned by the unknown. We make poor decisions. We change, and we need answers. Dekindle provides answers. As soon as you select the categories / considerations that are applicable for your calculation, then input the data, Dekindle will provide you with an answer. If every aspect of your life was this responsive, things would be a lot easier.
Dekindle provides you with the foundation of he next part of your life. It is an equitable solution to one of life’s great problems. 
Unfortunately for you though, Dekindle doesn’t respond to emotion. It will consider the data provided without a tear, and without a laugh. This is one of its best benefits. If you sit down with a person they will obviously be swayed by your temperament and nature. Dekindle can’t be, and the same applies to your ex. If both parties put in exactly the same data, then you will be provided with exactly the same result.
That’s fair and equitable. The next part of the solution is what you are going to do next with your life – good luck.